The Struggling Workin Mama
My next post was supposed to be about the surplus of pictures I have accumulated since becoming a mom and fun ways to display them, but today happened instead. To be frank nothing out of the ordinary happened today to make it a hard day, but I think it’s important to be as authentic as possible. I, for one, am tired of the overly curated blogs only showing the best moments of motherhood. To me that does a disservice to mothers looking for support because it’s just not how it is 24/7.
Before I had my second child I was a hard pass on meal prepping. Spending my Sundays cooking a couple meals was not something I was interested in, it seemed time consuming and no matter how hard I try cooking is not something I enjoy. When I returned to work and had two kids in daycare I quickly realized buying lunch every day at work needed to stop, if I put the work in it was an easy way to save a significant amount of money each week. I tried taking leftovers at first or bringing a frozen meal but often wouldn’t end up eating it and would grab something from the cafeteria, which meant I was wasting food and spending money. Double fail. So I starting making an extra meal on Sunday just to bring for lunch each day. Here are some things I’ve learned…
Let’s talk daycare. My girls will be 3 years and 18 months old next month. They have both been in daycare since they were 12 weeks old. Before my girls daycare was a foreign concept to me, I was never in it and it wasn’t the choice for those closest to me with kids. Instead of trying to cram everything I’ve learned into one GIGANTIC post, I thought a series of posts about major moments I’ve gone through being a daycare mom would be easier to digest.
It’s the middle of January and the excitement of the new year has worn off. If I’m being totally honest it wore off January 2nd when I returned to work. December is a magical month, even if you don’t celebrate Christmas, being in the workforce, you’re most likely privy to office holiday parties, a general work attitude of “it can wait” and more days off than usual. Combine that with twinkling lights and any and all reasons to indulge and you’ve got yourself a holiday high.
Then all of the sudden, New Year’s Day is over and you’re forced back into reality like it never happened. You return to work groggy from your holiday hangover similar to the feeling of a screaming baby waking you in the middle of a deep sleep.
While I’m still struggling through like anyone else here are some simple things I’ve found that help:
How are you doing this winter Tuesday?
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Like most, the second my husband and I found out we were pregnant we started thinking of baby names. If you’ve had a child you’ve probably seen the popular meme, “you never know how many people you dislike until you have to name a baby.” It’s not easy! Luckily with our first as soon as we found out it was a girl we were able to narrow the choices down to two pretty easily.
Welcome to the blog! I’ve thought about starting this blog for a long time and decided with the new year to go for it. I’m a working, married, mother of two trying to have it all. I believe sharing is caring and hope my personal experiences can help others going through something similar.
My advice is just like my parenting, far from perfect but 100% real.
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Cheers!